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Trading Psychology

Cleaning My Charts Like Cleaning My Kitchen

by Gav Leave a Comment

It’s Sunday afternoon. I’m not trading, but I’m doing something just as important.

I’m cleaning the kitchen.

The counter’s a mess. Crumbs under the toaster. A drip trail of coffee from this morning. A few dishes that “look clean enough” until you hold them up to the light.

So I wipe. I rinse. I reset the space.

Not because I’m obsessive.

Because Monday morning is smoother when I walk into a clean kitchen.

And somewhere between scrubbing the sink and resetting the grinder, I realized — I clean my charts the same way.


Mess builds quietly.

One week it’s an extra indicator I’m testing.
Next, it’s a new template I forgot to delete.
A couple of levels I marked but never used.
Suddenly, my chart looks like a supermarket shelf. Overcrowded. Distracting.

So now I build a habit around it.

Each weekend, I clean my charts like I clean my kitchen.

  • I reset my layout
  • I clear out old levels
  • I remove any tool that didn’t earn its keep

Clean space. Clear mind.


It’s not just about looking tidy.

It’s about removing friction.

When I start the session on Monday, I want to see only what matters. Price. Context. Key zones. A few tested tools.

Same way I don’t want to search for a clean mug while half awake.


The best charts are like the best kitchens.

Not fancy. Just functional.

Everything in its place. Nothing that doesn’t belong.

Reset your space, and the routine flows better.

And when routine flows, so does the trading.

Filed Under: Back to Basic, blogs, The Quiet Trader Series Tagged With: Trading Journal, Trading Psychology

How to Overcome Trading Anxiety: A Step-by-Step Guide to Staying Calm Under Pressure

by Gav Leave a Comment

Let’s be honest. Trading can be stressful as hell. Your money is on the line. The market moves fast. And just when you think you’ve got it all figured out, BAM—price reverses, and you’re left staring at a red P&L like it just insulted your family.

Anxiety in trading is real. But here’s the truth: if you can’t control your emotions, you can’t control your trades. So, let’s cut through the fluff and get straight to what actually works.


1. Pre-Game Like a Pro: Have a Plan (or Get Wrecked)

Ever noticed how pilots don’t just hop into a plane and wing it? They follow a pre-flight checklist. You should do the same.

  • Define your entry and exit BEFORE you trade. If you’re making decisions mid-trade, you’re gambling, not trading.
  • Set your risk per trade. If you don’t know what you’re willing to lose before you click buy or sell, don’t click at all.
  • Know your stop and take-profit levels. No “let’s see what happens.” Uncertainty breeds panic.

A solid plan is your anxiety’s worst enemy. Trade with a blueprint, not emotions.


2. Reduce Position Size: Anxiety’s Volume Knob

Want to feel instant relief? Cut your position size in half.

Most trading anxiety comes from risking too much. If you’re sweating bullets every time price moves a tick, your size is too big. Trade small enough that losses feel like a minor inconvenience, not a heart attack.

Pro tip: If you can’t sleep because of an open trade, your position is way too large. Fix it.


3. Detach from the Outcome: You’re Not a Fortune Teller

Let’s get something straight—you will never predict the market with 100% accuracy. Stop trying.

  • Your job is to follow your edge, not chase certainty.
  • Wins and losses are just data points, not personal attacks.
  • Focus on execution, not P&L. If you trade well, the money follows. If you chase money, mistakes follow.

Detach from individual trades. The market owes you nothing, but it rewards discipline over time.


4. Control the Chaos: Rituals and Routine

The best traders operate like machines. Why? Because routines kill hesitation.

  • Start your day with a market scan and prep routine. Get in the right headspace before you even think about placing a trade.
  • Use a trading checklist. The more you automate your decision-making, the less room there is for doubt.
  • Take breaks. Step away from the screen. Your brain needs to reset, especially after a tough session.

Structure beats stress. If you’re winging it every day, no wonder you’re anxious.


5. Breathe, Move, Reset: Physical Hacks for Mental Calm

Your body affects your mind. Use it to your advantage.

  • Breathe deeply before and during trades. It sounds basic, but controlled breathing keeps you from spiraling into panic mode.
  • Get up and move. Sitting and staring at charts for hours messes with your brain. Take a walk. Do push-ups. Reset.
  • Stay hydrated and eat properly. No, caffeine and junk food aren’t “fuel.” They’re anxiety accelerators.

A clear mind starts with a well-functioning body. Treat it like part of your trading toolkit.


6. Accept That You Will Lose (Because You Will)

Losing is part of the game. Read that again.

The sooner you accept that not every trade will be a winner, the sooner trading stops feeling like life or death. The goal isn’t perfection. It’s consistency.

  • Follow your process. If a loss came from a good trade setup, move on. That’s just trading.
  • Review your mistakes. Not to beat yourself up, but to learn and adjust.
  • Detach your self-worth from your P&L. You are not your trading account. Losses don’t define you—your discipline does.

Final Thoughts: The Market Will Always Be There—Trade Like It

Anxiety in trading comes from uncertainty, fear, and overattachment to outcomes. The fix? Have a plan, trade smaller, build routines, and accept losses as part of the game.

The market isn’t going anywhere. There’s always another trade. Relax, trade smart, and focus on execution.

Now, what’s your biggest trading anxiety struggle? Drop it in the comments—I bet you’re not alone.

Filed Under: Back to Basic, blogs, Learn Trading Tagged With: Trading Psychology

Why Most Traders Fail: The Psychological Traps That Destroy Your Profits

by Gav Leave a Comment

Let’s cut the fluff. Most traders don’t blow their accounts because of bad strategies. It’s not the market, your broker, or some “manipulation” nonsense.

The real killer? Your own mind.

Trading is psychological warfare, against yourself. If you don’t master your emotions, you’re dead money. So let’s break down the biggest mental pitfalls wrecking your profits and, more importantly, how to avoid them.

1. Fear: The Account Killer

Fear turns traders into indecisive wrecks. You hesitate on good setups. You exit winners too early. You avoid taking trades entirely. Sound familiar?

What’s happening? Your brain sees risk and freaks out. It’s trying to protect you, but in trading, fear usually makes things worse.

Fix it:

Have a plan. If you know where your stop is and accept the risk before you click buy or sell, fear loses its power. Also, lower your position size if you’re sweating bullets—trading should feel calculated, not like a heart attack.

2. Greed: The Silent Assassin

Greed whispers in your ear: “Hold it longer. Double the position. This is THE move.” And just like that, you turn a winning trade into a disaster.

What’s happening? You see money on the screen and start thinking emotionally instead of rationally. You convince yourself the market owes you more.

Fix it:

Stick to your profit targets. If the trade is good, there will always be another one. Set trailing stops or scale out, but don’t let greed turn a winner into a loser.

3. Revenge Trading: The Tilt Machine

You take a loss. Your emotions scream, “Get it back NOW.” So, you slam another trade—bad entry, oversized position, no plan.

Boom. Another loss.

What’s happening? You’re not trading anymore; you’re gambling. You’re reacting instead of thinking.

Fix it:

Accept losses as part of the game. If you feel emotional, step away from the screen. Walk, breathe, punch a pillow, whatever. Just don’t trade in a mental fog.

4. Overtrading: Death by a Thousand Cuts

More trades don’t mean more profits. In fact, overtrading usually means death by commissions, bad setups, and emotional burnout.

What’s happening? Boredom. Impatience. The need to “be in the action.” You trade just to trade.

Fix it:

Quality over quantity. One solid trade is better than ten random ones. If nothing meets your criteria, sit on your hands. No trades are better than bad trades.

5. Lack of Discipline: The Slow Account Drain

You know your rules. You know your setup. But when it’s time to execute? You do the opposite. Why?

What’s happening? The market triggers emotions, and you cave. You become your own worst enemy.

Fix it:

Treat trading like a business. Have a plan, write it down, and follow it like a contract. No exceptions. If you can’t stay disciplined, take a break.

Lack of discipline isn’t a “bad habit”. It’s a direct path to financial ruin.

The Bottom Line

The market doesn’t care about your feelings. Your job? Control yourself.

Trading success isn’t about predicting every move. It’s about staying consistent, disciplined, and emotionally stable. You don’t have to be perfect. You just need to be better than the guy blowing up his account.

Master your mind, and the money will follow.

Now, are you going to trade smarter or keep making the same mistakes?

Filed Under: Back to Basic, blogs Tagged With: Trading Psychology

Afraid to Pull the Trigger? Here’s Why (and How to Fix It)

by Gav Leave a Comment

Ever sat in front of your screen, finger hovering over the buy button, heart pounding like you’re about to defuse a bomb? Yeah, me too. It’s called “Afraid to Trade” syndrome, and it’s the silent killer of retail traders—especially those with small accounts.

Why? Because hesitation is expensive. The market doesn’t wait for you to get comfortable. If you freeze up, the move you’ve been waiting for will leave without you. Worse? You’ll probably jump in late, chasing price like a panicked tourist running after a departing train. Not a good look.

So, let’s talk about why this happens and, more importantly, how to fix it.

Why Are You Afraid to Trade?

1. You’re Overvaluing Every Trade

Let’s be real, when your account is small, every trade feels like it matters more. You don’t have the luxury of deep pockets, so every loss stings like a betrayal. But that mindset turns each decision into an emotional rollercoaster.

Fix it:

Think in probabilities. No single trade defines your success. A good strategy plays out over dozens, even hundreds of trades. Your goal? Execute well, manage risk, and let the math do its thing.

2. You Haven’t Truly Accepted Risk

Saying “I accept risk” and actually accepting risk are two different things. If the thought of losing makes your stomach tighten, you’re probably risking too much.

Fix it:

Lower your position size. Seriously. If your stop loss getting hit makes you want to punch a hole in your desk, your risk is too high. Scale it down until a loss feels like a paper cut, not a gunshot wound.

3. You Don’t Trust Your Strategy

When you hesitate, deep down, you don’t believe in what you’re doing. Maybe you haven’t backtested enough, or maybe you’ve been burned too many times. Either way, doubt is the enemy of execution.

Fix it:

Go back to the charts. Backtest your setups. Track your trades. Build confidence through data, not hope. If your setup is solid, your job is simple: execute it without hesitation.

I use Market Replay function of TradingView to test my strategies.

TradingView is my go-to platform for Live trading and Market Replay. It is cloud-based which means you can access from anywhere. And the ability to code in pine script opens up opportunities for traders to grow and profit. I am happy to recommend TradingView to traders at all levels.

4. You’re Chasing Perfection

News flash: no trade setup is 100% perfect. If you’re waiting for a flawless entry where risk is microscopic and profit is guaranteed, you’ll be waiting forever.

Fix it:

Accept imperfection. Edge, not certainty, makes money. Take high-probability setups and trust the process. If you lose? Fine. Next trade.

5. You’re Too Attached to Money

Trading with money you can’t afford to lose? Yeah, that’s a problem. If losing $50 on a micro lot trade feels like losing rent money, you’re in the wrong headspace.

Fix it:

Only trade with risk capital. If you’re depending on trading to pay bills, you’ll make emotional, fear-driven decisions. And fear-driven traders get eaten alive.

Practical Steps to Overcome Fear

  • Set a Daily “Pull the Trigger” Rule → Commit to taking X number of valid setups per day. No excuses.
  • Use a Trade Checklist → Define your setup criteria. If it checks out, you must take the trade.
  • Reduce Size Until You Feel Nothing → If fear is paralyzing, you’re trading too big.
  • Detach from Outcomes → Focus on execution. If the setup is there, take the trade. Win or lose, it’s just one step in a larger game.
  • Rewire Your Mindset → Winning traders aren’t fearless. They act despite fear because they know the long-term game.

Final Thought: Just Take the Damn Trade

Look, hesitation will kill your trading career faster than a bad setup ever could. Fear is natural, but letting it control you is optional. The only way through it? Trade. Make mistakes. Learn. Repeat.

Because the reality is, if you wait for fear to disappear, you’ll never trade at all.

So go on. Pull the trigger.

Filed Under: Back to Basic, blogs, Learn Trading Tagged With: Trading Psychology

Next trade is more important

by Gav 2 Comments

I was having a walk after buying food from the supermarket with my fiancee.

The next trade is more important

I told her about my recent trades, I was pretty happy with my performance. She smiled and told me ‘ It is good, but the next trade is more important’.

This gives me some thoughts. Exactly, the next trade is always more important. And the very next trade has totally nothing to do with our recent trades which we turned a profit or loss. However, human natures make us think it may. We will end up with overconfident, or timid when making the next trade.

Forget about your past trades. Keep the focus on the price action, and the next trade is always more important. You have to give the best performance for the next trade, it might not be perfect, but it will be your best shot!

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Filed Under: blogs, Learn Trading Tagged With: Trading Psychology

Video: Who moved my cheese?

by Gav Leave a Comment

Update [12 Jan 2010]: Apparently, the video has violated some copyrights issues and has been removed. Anyway, check out the book, it is definitely well worth the time.

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[Original post]

I read the book years back. A simple story but reveals profound truths about change. It applies to life and, of course, trading.

“It is time to move on!”

Check it out. and enjoy!

Filed Under: Trading Lessons Tagged With: Trading Psychology, video

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